The important thing to remember is that all of our slaves (submissive escorts) are human beings, and although they enjoy BDSM activities they are still normal young ladies and enjoy the same sorts of pleasures.
When you first meet the lady, please take the time to introduce yourself and talk to her. Perhaps give her a rose or offer her dinner before starting SM activities. If you show that you are a gentleman, and demonstrate your well mannered side, she will be more comfortable during rest periods, and will therefore be able to give a better response either socially, or when you are doing SM play or having sex.
It is also important to let the lady clearly understand when you are starting and finishing a session of SM play. Our ladies cannot play 24×7, and they need a break from time to time. To keep lady’s passion, don’t play too long time in each play (40 minute for normal SM play and 10 minutes for heavy spanking / slapping / needles / electrical play). Let the slave know when the session is starting and finishing by directly telling her. This makes it easy for the lady to understand what you want, and respond appropriately when you need it.
In addition, for your slaves, the best way to end the SM play is – a violent sex! Especially for the natural submitives this is the best reward for them!
Lastly, please remember that it is nice to be appreciated. When you have finished a session, say “thank you” or offer some sweet words to her. When she does a good job, reward her with a gift or a bonus.
The key of all the tips is: submissive ladies are also women, aside of money they also need some romance. You can divide the dating period into SM play time and normal time. You can slap her, piss on her, order her lick your feet and ass in SM play time; but also open a car door for her, invite her to a candlelight dinner and say “I love you” in the normal time. In this way, you can catch her soul and make her completely into your slave.
Please remember, never be rude (say “fuck you” ) in normal time, and never be too much of a gentleman (say “would you please lick my foot”) in SM play time.